Fifty shades of remote working

30 août 2015

This is a blog post that I wanted to write down for a long time now but never found the time to do it. This post is about my experience as a, time and location, remote worker (I live in Paris, most engineers work in San Francisco). For most people, working remotely sounds awesome. The reality is unfortunately more nuanced than that.  Sure, the ability to define when, where and how you want to work is definitely a plus. But you  also have to be disciplined enough to focus on accomplishing your goals and cope with the disadvantages of not being in the same location as your team.  This post is all about describing these nuances to the best of my ability.

First let’s start with why working remotely is awesome.

All of the above is true, but we should not occult the dark side of working remotely:

  • Most of the times, you will feel a disconnection with what’s happening in the company or within your team, especially if you don’t pay a visit to the office regularly.
  • You will miss an important aspect of work which is socializing with your co-workers.
  • Meetings will be painful. The challenges include seeing what is written on the board, getting your voice heard in a timely manner and other technical difficulties that can complicate  even the simplest meeting. You will certainly enjoy this funny video that describes what conference call may look like.
  • Hard to make your presence felt by others. Hard to drive a point across. Very few of your co-workers will know who you are or what you do in the company. Which sucks because anyone wants his work to be recognized to feel satisfied.
  • Feeling the impostor syndrome. This is something that I found to be common among remote workers. Scott Hanselman, who is a full time remote worker at Microsoft describes it all  very well in this post:
All this said, it’s REALLY hard to be remote. I propose that most remote workers work at least as hard, if not more so, than their local counterparts. This is fueled in no small part by guilt and fear. We DO feel guilty working at home. We assume you all think we’re just hanging out without pants on. We assume you think we’re just at the mall tweeting. We fear that you think we aren’t putting in a solid 40 hours (or 50, or 60). Because of this, we tend to work late, we work after the kids are down, and we work weekends. We may take an afternoon off to see a kid’s play, but then the guilt will send us right back in to make up the time. In my anecdotal experience, remote workers are more likely to feel they are « taking time from the company » and pay it back more than others. You might poo-poo the guilt, but ask around to your remote brethren. It’s there, they just don’t talk about it.
  • Consequently to not being on-site you will probably feel a lack of engagement and motivation at times.
Advices to keep your sanity while working remotely (based on my own experience this is particularly adapter when timezone difference is involved):
  • First, discipline is key. If you don’t have it you will suffer. Discipline to wake up on normal hours. Discipline to not be dragged into home related distractions. Discipline to take a shower everyday and to wear regular clothes that you would wear at work (instead of pajamas). But also discipline to call it a day after the work is done. In other terms you have to draw a line between home and work to make sure that you mind doesn’t stay at work all the time.
  • Set up a dedicated work environment. Make sure the space meets the ergonomic requirements. This is what my home office looks like. Notice the separation between the office and the rest of the living room. It also has some nice ergonomic features which I will write about in another post.
  • Before sleeping. Make sure that your next day is properly planned. Don’t improvise. Never improvise. You should plan when you will wake up, when you will start working, the different breaks you will take (like if you want to exercise or do a post-lunch walk) and try to come up with a reasonable work-life balance based on the goals that you want to accomplish and the meetings that you will have during the day.
  • Have an on-site buddy. Someone who will represent you at standup or meetings that you can’t attend to. Use him/her as a channel to communicate with the team on what you need from others and what others might need from you.
  • Communicate a lot. Send your status report everyday. Make sure you have regular 1-1s with your manager to communicate about how things are going and whether anything is blocking you as a remote worker.
  • Travel as often as possible to your office. Seriously. If you are in the same city: once a week. Same state: once every two weeks. Different states/countries (but same continent): once a month. Different continents: once a quarter. This is super important to stay engaged with the rest of the team and the company mission. Loosing engagement and motivation is the worst thing that can happen to you as a remote worker as well as to your employer.
  • If you feel cabin fever, go to a co-working space or to your local library. Anywhere with a good WiFi and reasonable noise level is fine.
  • Make sure your IT sets up the right equipments and tools for meetings and all form of communication. At Lookout we use: HipChat for live chat, Zoom for meetings, and Atlasssian Confluence and Questions for sharing knowledge company wide.
  • Set up a clear escalation path for urgent tasks.  Whether it’s PagerDuty or dedicated inbox. Make it clear that after your day is over, the only reason for you to come back to work will be if anything urgent  comes up. And define clearly what urgent means (it means it can’t wait until your tomorrow morning).
  • Related to previous note, know when to stop working. For me it’s between 6 and 8pm. After having sent my status report and attended any relevant meeting scheduled during this reasonable time slot. As soon as you call it a day, don’t check your emails anymore unless you get notified about something urgent through the emergency channels (see previous point).
Keep in mind that these recommendations are based on my own experience and I am not claiming that they will work on everybody. Having said that, after discussing with many remote workers I can tell that most of us enjoy and suffer from the same things. Finally, if you live in the Paris area and work remotely in the tech industry, please leave a comment below or reach out to me privately, I really would like to get to know more people working under the same conditions to share tips and why not meet regularly to work together.
31 août 2015 @ 16 h 22 min

nice experience, i would love to try this, especialy i’m not disciplined enought … good luck

    Amokrane CHENTIR
    3 septembre 2015 @ 11 h 31 min


1 septembre 2015 @ 16 h 00 min

Great post. Thanks for sharing!

    Amokrane CHENTIR
    3 septembre 2015 @ 11 h 30 min

    Thanks Matheus, do you work remotely yourself?

2 septembre 2015 @ 12 h 20 min

Nice post! I completely agree. I’m an Android developer, working remotely for a few years now: I love it. It fits my way of working and allows me to live where I want instead of living where the work is. Btw I’m in France, too, but I’m not in Paris 😛

    Amokrane CHENTIR
    3 septembre 2015 @ 11 h 30 min

    Thanks Ivan. Where do you live in France?

8 août 2016 @ 13 h 36 min

Great post. What’s the best way to find a remote job ? Thank you Amokrane

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